One thing Recycla has learned over the years is that while most people are fine with going green in theory, the reality can sometimes be different. For example, she has spent years getting her husband to accept eco cleaning supplies — in theory, he understands that they are healthier to have around the house; however, in reality, he does not believe that they are as effective in dealing with dirt and grime. (Hogwash, says Recycla).
With all this in mind, Recycla was pleased to read this article with seven great suggestions for how to ease your loved ones/roommates into a greener lifestyle. Quoting directly:
- Make it simple. Sometimes getting someone to be green is about making it easy for them. Clearly marked recycling bins, cleaning products that smell nice and do the job, a Bokashi composter instead of a traditional one (you can just scrape all your leftover food into it after dinner, even meat and dairy!), tasty substitutes for their favorite snacks.
- Be willing to do the work. If the people you live with aren’t being as green as you are, we’re sorry but you’re just going to have to do the extra work with a smile and no lectures.
- Start slow/. Instead of trying to change everything at once, introduce one new thing every week.
- Be observant, pick your battles, and then get creative: What are their non-green habits that bother you the most? If, for example, they leave the lights on, invest in some timers that turn off the lights automatically.
- Negotiate and experiment: I have one friend whose boyfriend still labors under the misconception that green products don’t clean as well. When his allergies flared up, she suggested they try some green products, just to see. When he saw that his allergies were clearing up and that the products worked just as well as the ones he was used to, he relented.
- Frame it so they can understand it: Another friend wanted to switch to CFLs but his wife balked because she thought they were ugly. When he pointed out that they’d save enough money over the life of the CFLs to get those shoes she’d been eyeing, she agreed. (If you want to find out how much money you’d save, click here).
- Be patient: Eventually, they probably will come around, or at least be a little greener, but it may take some time.
How are things in your house? Is everyone on board with getting a little more eco or are you having to work hard to convince some people?


We’re getting there. We carry our own bags to the Farmers’ Market, but I still catch Husband putting the farmer’s bag in our own. Honey, just say ‘No, thanks, I have my own!’
Very sound advice. Pushing things on people — even our own family members — tends to backfire. Small changes and lots of positive feedback can work wonders! Thanks for the great post!
-Deb for Ecover
Great post on how to help the people you live with become more green! I have a similar situation with my husband. He is green “in theory” but rather lazy in practice! I have learned to be patient and make small changes… it also helps that I am the one doing the shopping!
Our current debate is whether to go cloth with our soon-to-be expected baby. Since I work from home and will do more diaper-changing, I have been using that argument to my advantage. I think I’ve convinced him to try it for at least 2 months to see if we can do it.
I wrote a recent blog post myself on on easy tips to green your small business. I think it would be great for your readers, so feel free to borrow any tips or hints! http://ableair1.sites.captico.com/2010/07/15/green-businesstips/ Emily from http://www.ableair1.com
Thanks!
Emily